Alright, let’s talk about this “sex with bf” thing. Don’t go giggling now, it’s a part of life, just like eatin’ and sleepin’. I ain’t no expert, mind you, but I’ve seen a thing or two in my days.
So, what is it all about? Well, it’s when a girl and her boyfriend, you know, they get real close. They do things… intimate things. It’s about love, I guess, or maybe just plain old feelin’ good. Young folks these days, they got all sorts of names for it, but back in my day, we just called it… well, never you mind what we called it. It ain’t polite talk for young’uns.
Now, I hear tell there’s all kinds of ways these young people are doin’ it. Some like it slow and sweet, like a summer breeze. Some like it rough and tumble, like a good ol’ wrestling match. And some, bless their hearts, they like to film it! Can you believe that? Filmin’ somethin’ so personal. I reckon they call it “porn” or somethin’ like that. They watch it, other folks watch it… it’s all a bit much for an old woman like me, I tell ya.
- Some do it in their homes.
- Some do it in fancy hotels.
- Some even do it… well, I heard tell some do it in jail! Imagine that! A girl visitin’ her boyfriend in jail and… well, you get the picture. Lands sakes!
It ain’t always just the two of them neither. Sometimes, I hear, they bring in other folks. Girlfriends bringin’ in their boyfriend’s friend… it’s a whole heap of mess if you ask me. And the things they do! Lord have mercy! They got all sorts of… positions, they call ’em. And toys! Don’t even get me started on the toys. Back in my day, a goodnight kiss was excitin’ enough.
Now, I ain’t sayin’ it’s all bad. When two people love each other, and they wanna be close, that’s their business. But you gotta be careful, you hear? There’s consequences to these things. Babies, for one. And diseases, too. You gotta protect yourself, body and soul. And some of these young’uns just ain’t right in the head, treatin’ each other like dirt. That ain’t love, that’s just plain nasty.
I see these young girls, givin’ their boyfriends… well, let’s just say they’re bein’ awful friendly with their hands. And boys, they ain’t always respectful. They take what they want, and then they leave. That ain’t right. A man should treat a woman with respect, plain and simple. And a woman should respect herself, too.
And this “romantic sex” they talk about… well, I reckon that’s the best kind, if you’re gonna do it at all. It’s about more than just the… you know… the physical act. It’s about carin’ for each other, about bein’ tender and kind. It’s about lookin’ into each other’s eyes and feelin’ that… that connection. That’s what matters, not all the fancy moves and toys.
So, there you have it. My two cents on “sex with bf.” It’s a complicated thing, full of ups and downs, joys and sorrows. Just remember to be safe, be respectful, and for goodness sake, don’t go filmin’ everything! Some things are meant to be private, between two people who care about each other. And if you don’t care about each other? Well, then maybe you shouldn’t be doin’ it at all. That’s all I gotta say about that.
Remember, your body is your temple. Treat it with respect. And if you got questions, talk to someone you trust. Don’t go learnin’ everything from them… videos. They ain’t real life, you hear?
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