Well, well, well, so you wanna know why men want virgins, huh? It’s a question as old as time, ain’t it? I heard some folks talkin’ ’bout it down at the market the other day. Some say this, some say that. Let me tell you what this old gal thinks about the whole shebang.
First off, men want virgins, some do, not all. Ain’t no one-size-fits-all answer to this. Some fellas, they just like what they like. Just like some folks like apples, and some like oranges. But I tell ya, there’s a lot of talk about this virgin thing, more than there should be if you ask me.
Now, some folks, they make a big fuss over this whole virginity thing. Like it’s some kinda prize or somethin’. Back in my day, it was different, but still. It is a big deal? Some people think so. I heard them say over 30% people don’t want to date a virgin. Can you believe it?
They say virginity is just an idea. A “social construct,” I heard some fancy pants say once. Sounds like a load of hogwash to me, but what do I know? But it seems to me, lots of fellas get hung up on it. It’s like they think a gal who ain’t never been with a man is more… pure, or somethin’. I guess it is different for women and men. Women think it is a gift. Men think it is bad.
- Some men, they think a virgin is gonna be all innocent and sweet. Like a little lamb.
- And I reckon some of ’em like the idea of being the first. It’s like plantin’ your flag on the moon or somethin’. Some men like that. They want to be the first.
- They say when men have sex with a virgin, it’s special. I don’t know about that.
- And there’s some fellas who just ain’t confident. They think a virgin won’t know if they’re any good or not.
- Not all girls who are virgins are that way for religious reasons.
Why do men want virgins? Well, some men think virgins are better. It could be about bragging, or the thrill of a new experience, like they say. The list could go on. Some men are obsessed with virginity. But most men, they don’t care that much. They just fall in love with a person, not just one thing about them.
I heard some men are more attracted to virgins. Even if these girls ain’t feeling well. It’s like they think virgins are better, no matter what. It is not just about having babies. But maybe virgin girls are younger and healthier. Some say that is why.
But lemme tell ya somethin’. Whether a gal’s a virgin or not, it don’t really tell ya much about her. A good woman is a good woman, no matter what. And a good man, well, he’s gonna appreciate a good woman for who she is, not just whether she’s been with someone before. This is what I think. There are fun and hard truths about losing your virginity, no matter if you are 15 or 35. That is just how life is.
Now, I ain’t sayin’ there’s anythin’ wrong with a fella preferrin’ a virgin. To each his own, I always say. But it ain’t right to judge a woman based on that. And it ain’t right for a woman to feel like she’s worth less if she ain’t a virgin. That’s just plain silly.
Why is virginity a big deal? It’s complicated, they say. People have different ideas about sex. It’s different everywhere, not just here. Some smart folks have written books about it, tryin’ to figure it all out.
Truth is, there ain’t no easy answer to this question. It’s like tryin’ to catch smoke. It is different for everyone. But I’ll tell you this: a good man, a real man, he’s gonna love a woman for her heart, her soul, and her mind. Not just for some idea of what she is or ain’t. That’s the kind of man a woman wants, virgin or not.
So, there you have it. That’s my two cents on the whole why do men want virgins business. Take it or leave it. But I hope it gives you somethin’ to chew on. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I gotta go tend to my chickens. They don’t care one bit about this whole virginity mess. They just want their feed.
