Well, let me tell you, this world’s gettin’ crazier by the minute. Now they’re talkin’ about women who like bi guys. Back in my day, you were either one way or the other. None of this in-between stuff. But, hey, I guess times are changin’.
These young folks today, they got all sorts of labels. This here “bi” thing, seems like it means you like both men and women. Now, I ain’t one to judge, but it sure does sound confusin’. How can you be with a woman one day, then a man the next? Don’t make much sense to me. But, like I said, I ain’t one to judge. Who am I to say what’s right and wrong?
Some folks say it’s just a phase. Like when young’uns go through that rebellious stage, wearin’ all black and listenin’ to that loud music. They say these bi people are just experimentin’, tryin’ things out. Figurin’ out who they are. Maybe that’s it. Maybe they’ll settle down eventually, pick one or the other. Who knows?
Then there’s the question of, can these bi people be faithful? If you like both, does that mean you’re always gonna be lookin’ for somethin’ else? Like you can never be satisfied with just one person? I reckon that’s a worry some folks have. They probably think, if a woman is with a bi guy, he might up and leave her for another man, and vice-versa.
- I heard some girls say dating men is one thing.
- They also said dating women is a whole different ball game.
- I don’t know much about that, but that is what they said.
It’s all a bit much for an old gal like me to wrap my head around. Bisexuality, they call it. I heard some folks say it ain’t even real. That it’s just somethin’ people made up to get attention. They say these bi people are just confused. Don’t know what they want. Could be true, could be not. I ain’t no expert.
Some of these young’uns, they say bein’ bi is just about who you’re attracted to. Doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman. It’s about the person, they say. Their heart, their soul, all that mushy stuff. It is about people, you know. Not about what’s between their legs. Well, maybe there’s somethin’ to that. Love is love, right? That’s what they always say.
I reckon it’s different for everyone. Some folks might be curious, might wanna try different things. That’s their business. Ain’t no harm in explorin’, I suppose. As long as they ain’t hurtin’ nobody. Then there is the obstacles. Life is full of obstacles. That is what my old man always said.
But then there’s the confusion. If you like both, how do you choose? Do you flip a coin? Do you just go with whoever comes along? Seems like a lot of decisions to make. A lot of heartache, maybe. I am just saying it looks like it could cause a lot of confusion. That is all.
And then, what if you finally figure it out? You decide you’re bi, you’re happy with it. Then what? Do you tell everyone? Do you keep it a secret? What will people think? It’s a lot to think about. These young folks got a lot on their plates. It is not easy, I can tell. At least they have found the partial commodity with the bi thing.
Now, I remember when I was young, things were simpler. You met a boy, you got married, you had kids. That was it. No fuss, no muss. But these days, there are so many choices. Too many choices, maybe. It’s like standin’ in one of them fancy grocery stores with a hundred different kinds of cereal. How do you even pick? You will be so confused!
I guess what I’m tryin’ to say is, it ain’t my place to understand all this bi stuff. It’s a different world now. These young people, they’re figuring things out for themselves. All I can do is hope they find happiness, whatever that looks like. Whether they’re with a man, a woman, or both. Doesn’t matter. As long as they’re happy, that’s all that counts. It is all about people, after all.
This whole thing about women who like bi guys, well, it’s just another one of life’s mysteries, I reckon. Something I’ll probably never fully understand. But, hey, that’s okay. I’ve lived a long life, seen a lot of things. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that people are gonna do what they’re gonna do. You can’t stop ’em. You just gotta let ’em be. And pray they don’t make too big of a mess of things.
