Okay, so, yesterday, I was bored as hell and had this stupid idea, “Why not try asking for nudes?” Yeah, I know, it sounds pretty messed up, but hear me out. It was more about seeing what would happen than actually wanting those pics.
I started by, you know, just chatting with some folks online. Nothing serious, just regular talk. I tried to steer the conversation towards, like, more personal stuff, but without being too obvious. It was a bit tricky, to be honest.
- First attempt: I was talking to this one person, and we were getting along, so I thought, “Why not?” I hinted around, talking about trust and stuff. They didn’t really get it, or maybe they just ignored it.
- Second try: This one was different. We were talking about relationships, and I kind of just threw it out there, like, “Have you ever sent nudes?” They were surprisingly cool about it, said they had, but weren’t really into it anymore.
- The one who got it: This is where it got interesting. I was talking to this person, and we just clicked. I didn’t even have to ask directly. It was like, we were both thinking it. But in the end, they sent a normal selfie, and we laughed it off.
Honestly, I didn’t really get any actual nudes. A couple of people were like, “What the hell?” and I just played it off as a joke. I realized it’s not really cool to just ask people for that kind of stuff. It felt kinda wrong, pushing people like that. I mean, it’s their choice, right?
My Thoughts
This whole thing was a bit of a wake-up call. I thought it would be this easy thing, like in the movies or something, but it’s not. It’s more about the person and how you connect with them. And even then, it’s not something you should just expect or ask for. It’s a respect thing. I felt a bit shitty afterward, like I was being a creep or something. So, yeah, I’m not doing that again. It was a dumb idea, and I learned my lesson. No more asking for nudes, that’s for sure.
