Alright, let’s talk about this… this… bi girlfriend thing. Don’t rightly know what all the fuss is about, but the young folks these days, they got all sorts of newfangled ideas. So, if you got yourself a girl, and she says she likes, well, both… both boys and girls… that’s what they call a “bi girlfriend,” I reckon. Bi Girlfriend, that’s what the young’uns call it.
Now, don’t go gettin’ your britches in a twist. It ain’t nothin’ to be ashamed of, and it ain’t nothin’ new neither. People been lovin’ who they love since the beginning of time, far as I can tell. Just ’cause they got a fancy name for it now, don’t make it no different. This relationship thing, it’s always been complicated, ain’t it?
- First off, she ain’t “experimentin’.” Heard some folks say that, like it’s just a phase. Hmph! Maybe you’re the one experimentin’! Maybe you’re the one who needs to figure things out. Love is love, I always say. It don’t matter if it’s a man or a woman on the other end.
- And if you’re datin’ this bi girlfriend, well, then you gotta be understandin’. It ain’t always gonna be easy. People gonna talk, they gonna whisper behind your back. But you gotta hold your head high and be proud of who you love. Don’t let them gossips get to ya. Gossip is like weeds, always trying to choke out the good stuff. You gotta pull them weeds out, root and stem.
Now, I heard tell there’s stages to this thing. Like, first you’re curious, then you got some obstacles, then you get all confused… it’s like learnin’ to bake a cake, first you gotta gather all the stuff, then you mess up a few times, then you get the hang of it. This bi identity thing, it’s kinda like that I guess. But I figure it’s all just a bunch of fancy talk for figuring out who you are and who you love. And that ain’t nobody’s business but your own.
Being in a relationship with a bi girlfriend is no different than bein’ in a relationship with anyone else. You gotta treat her with respect, gotta listen to her, gotta be there for her when she needs ya. And she gotta do the same for you. That’s what makes a good relationship, not who she likes. It’s about trust, and respect, and love. Simple as that. If she wants to wear overalls one day and a dress the next, what’s the difference? It’s her choice ain’t it?
Some folks get all worried about jealousy. They think, “Oh no, she likes girls too, that means she’s gonna run off with the first pretty gal she sees!” Well, let me tell you somethin’. If someone wants to cheat, they gonna cheat, whether they bi or straight or whatever new label they got these days. Jealousy, that’s just a poison, it’ll eat you up from the inside out. You gotta trust your partner, plain and simple. If you can’t trust her, well, then you ain’t got nothin’.
And don’t you go tryin’ to change her neither. She is who she is, and you love her for it, right? If you try to make her somethin’ she ain’t, you just gonna push her away. Love is like a plant; if you try to force it to grow in a way it ain’t meant to, it’ll just wither and die. Let her be herself, let her shine, let her love who she wants to love. That’s the only way it’s gonna work.
This bi girlfriend of yours, she’s just a person, same as you and me. She wants to be happy, she wants to be loved, she wants to be accepted. And she deserves all those things, just like everyone else. So don’t let nobody tell you different. Don’t let them make you feel like your love is wrong or strange or different. Love is love, and that’s all there is to it. It ain’t rocket science.
And if you’re still confused, well, then you just need to sit down and talk to her. Communication, that’s the key to any good relationship. Talk about your fears, talk about your worries, talk about your hopes and dreams. And listen to her too. Really listen. Sometimes that’s all a person needs; someone to listen. And be honest. Honesty is like sunshine, it helps everything grow.
So there you have it. That’s my two cents on this bi girlfriend business. It ain’t nothin’ to be scared of, it ain’t nothin’ to be ashamed of. It’s just love, pure and simple. And love, well, love is the most powerful thing there is. It can move mountains, they say, and I reckon that’s true enough.
