Well, let me tell ya, this whole thing about women liking bi men, it’s a bit of a puzzle, ain’t it? You know, like figuring out why the rooster crows at sunrise. Some things just are, and some things… well, they’re complicated.
Do women like ’em? Some do, some don’t. It’s like asking if folks like cornbread. Some like it sweet, some like it plain, some don’t like it at all. It’s all a matter of taste, I reckon.
I heard some folks sayin’ it’s got somethin’ to do with how a man’s born. You know, like if his mama had too much sweet tea when she was carryin’ him. They call it “bi-logical” or somethin’ like that. Sounds fancy, but it just means it ain’t his fault, I guess. They talk about hormones and all that, but shoot, I don’t know nothin’ ’bout that. All I know is a good man is a good man, no matter who he likes.
- Some say it’s in the genes, like blue eyes or curly hair.
- Others say it’s got to do with what happens before you’re even born.
- And then there’s the talk about how a man thinks and what he likes. But shoot, who can really know what goes on in a man’s head?
Now, some women, they might get a bit skittish. They hear a man’s been with another man, and they think, “Well, he ain’t gonna want me then.” But that ain’t always the case. I seen plenty of men who like both apples and oranges, so to speak. It don’t mean they like one less than the other.
I read somewhere, or maybe it was somethin’ my niece told me, that lots of women, more than half maybe, wouldn’t go on a date with a man who’s been with another man. That’s a lot, ain’t it? But then again, there’s a whole bunch of women who don’t care one bit. They figure a good heart is a good heart, no matter who it beats for.
And let me tell you, dating ain’t easy for nobody, bi or not. It’s like tryin’ to catch a greased pig at the county fair. You think you got it, and then it slips right through your fingers. These bi folks, they gotta figure out when to tell someone, how to tell ‘em, and worry about what folks gonna think. It’s a whole lot of fuss, if you ask me. They gotta think about whether to be open about it, and that ain’t always easy. Seems like they’re always worried about what other people think.
But you know what? Love is love. It’s like a good rain after a long drought. It don’t matter if the rain falls on a cornfield or a pasture, it’s still gonna make things grow. And if a man and a woman, or a man and a man, or a woman and a woman, find happiness together, well, that’s their business, ain’t it? It ain’t hurtin’ nobody.
So, do women like bi men? Like I said, it depends on the woman. Some do, some don’t. Some are open-minded, some ain’t. It’s like askin’ if the sun’s gonna shine tomorrow. Maybe it will, maybe it won’t. But one thing’s for sure, everybody deserves a chance at happiness, no matter who they love.
And that’s all I gotta say about that. It’s a complicated world, and people are even more complicated. Just try to be kind, that’s what I always say. Be kind and mind your own business, and the world will be a better place.
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