Alright, so listen up, I’m gonna tell ya somethin’ ’bout these young folks and their problems. This whole “he blocked my number but not on social media” thing, it’s a mess, I tell ya.
What’s it all mean, huh? Well, it ain’t simple, that’s for sure. Back in my day, if a fella didn’t wanna talk to ya, he just didn’t talk to ya. No phones to block, no fancy computers or whatever they call ’em. Just plain talkin’ or not talkin’.
- Maybe he’s just confused: These young’uns, they get all tangled up in their feelin’s. He might be mad at ya, so he blocks the number, but then he misses seein’ your pictures or whatever you post online. Boys, they ain’t always the brightest, ya know?
- Maybe he’s playin’ games: Some folks, they like to stir the pot, make ya wonder. Blockin’ the number is a big ol’ statement, but leavin’ the social media open, that’s like leavin’ the door a crack open. He wants ya to see him, maybe even get jealous. Kids these days!
- Maybe he’s just tryin’ to move on, but not really: Blockin’ the number, that’s like sayin’, “Don’t call me no more.” But seein’ your posts, that’s like… well, it’s like lookin’ at an old photo album, I guess. A little bit of pain, a little bit of rememberin’, but not too much. He’s tryin’ to let go slow, not all at once.
It’s like this, see? If he blocks your number, that means he don’t wanna hear your voice, at least not right now. He’s prob’ly hurtin’, or angry, or just needs some space. But social media, that’s different. It ain’t as personal, ya know? It’s like lookin’ through a window, not actually bein’ in the room with someone. He can see what you’re up to, but he don’t have to talk to ya. It’s a way to keep tabs, I reckon, without gettin’ too close.
Now, I heard some folks say it’s ’cause he’s full of himself. Maybe he thinks he’s too good for ya, so he blocks the number to feel powerful, but he keeps you on social media ’cause he likes the attention. Likes seein’ you squirm, maybe. But I dunno, that sounds kinda mean-spirited, even for these youngsters.
What should you do? Well, that depends on what you want. If you wanna get him back, you could try reachin’ out on social media, but be careful. Don’t go beggin’ or cryin’. Just a simple, “Hey, how you doin’?” or somethin’ like that. If he ignores you, then you got your answer, don’t ya? He ain’t interested. But if he responds, then maybe there’s a chance.
If you’re done with him, then the best thing to do is just ignore him right back. Don’t look at his social media, don’t try to figure out what he’s thinkin’. Just move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, as they say. And believe me, honey, there are better ways to spend your time than worryin’ ’bout some fella who can’t make up his mind. You’re worth more than that.
And one more thing: don’t let these young folks and their fancy technology fool ya. Relationships, they’re still about the same things they always were: talkin’, listenin’, respectin’ each other. If he ain’t doin’ those things, then he ain’t worth your time, no matter how many ways he can block ya or unblock ya or whatever else they do these days.
Now, go on and live your life. Don’t let some blocked number get ya down. You’re stronger than that, I betcha.
Tags：Social media, Blocking, Relationships, Mixed Signals, Communication
