Alright, alright, let’s talk about what them fellas like to hear when, you know, you’re gettin’ busy. I ain’t no expert, mind you, but I’ve been around the block a few times, and I’ve heard a thing or two. So listen up, you might learn somethin’.
First off, men ain’t that complicated. They like to feel like they’re doin’ a good job, you know? Like they’re the king of the castle, or somethin’. So tell ‘em that! Somethin’ simple like, “Oh yeah, baby, that’s it,” or “You’re so good at this,” goes a long way. Don’t gotta be Shakespeare, just gotta be real.
And for goodness sake, don’t be shy! If it feels good, let ‘em know! Moan a little, groan a little, maybe even let out a little yell if you’re feelin’ it. They wanna know they’re makin’ you happy, see? It ain’t about fakin’ it, it’s about lettin’ loose and enjoyin’ yourself. And trust me, when you’re enjoyin’ yourself, they’re enjoyin’ themselves too.
- “Oh yeah, that’s it!” – Simple, but it works like a charm. Tells ‘em they’re on the right track.
- “You feel so good inside me.” – A little bit dirty, a little bit sweet, just the way they like it.
- “I love the way you…” – Fill in the blank, honey. Could be the way they kiss, the way they touch, whatever gets your motor runnin’.
- “Don’t stop!” or “Harder!” – If you’re feelin’ adventurous, let ‘em know you want more.
- Just plain old moaning and groaning – Sometimes, words ain’t even necessary. Just let your body do the talkin’.
Now, some fellas, they like it a little rougher, a little dirtier. If that’s your cup of tea, then go for it. Tell ‘em how big they are, how strong they are, how they’re the best you’ve ever had. But remember, everybody’s different. What works for one fella might not work for another. You gotta pay attention, see what makes ‘em tick.
And don’t forget the compliments! Men like to be praised just as much as women do. Tell ‘em they look good, they smell good, they taste good…you get the picture. Make ‘em feel like they’re the sexiest man alive. A little sweet talk can go a long way, you know?
But here’s the thing, and listen close ‘cause this is important: it’s gotta be genuine. Don’t just say things you don’t mean. Men can spot a fake a mile away. They wanna know you’re really into it, that you’re really feelin’ it. So be honest, be yourself, and let your feelings show.
And for heaven’s sake, don’t start askin’ questions in the middle of it! Like, “Why are you doin’ that?” or “What does this mean?” That’s just gonna kill the mood faster than a cold shower. Save the deep thinkin’ for later, honey. When you’re in the heat of the moment, just focus on the feelin’s.
Communication is key, they say. And it’s true, even when you’re, you know, gettin’ down to business. Talkin’ ain’t just about words, though. It’s about sounds, it’s about body language, it’s about lettin’ your partner know what you want and what you like. And listenin’ to what they want and like too.
So there you have it. A few little tips from an old gal who’s seen a thing or two. Remember, it ain’t rocket science. Just be yourself, be honest, and have fun. And if you can make that fella feel like he’s the king of the world, well, that’s just a bonus, ain’t it? Now go on and get busy!
At the end of the day, making your partner feel good is what really matters, whether it’s with words or just good old fashioned passion. Just make sure you are both having a good time, ain’t nothin’ more important than that, y’hear?
Tags: Intimacy, Sex Tips, Communication, Relationships, Bedroom Talk, Men’s Desires, What to Say, Making Love, Passion
