Well, let me tell ya, this whole “women like anal” thing, it’s not as simple as folks make it out to be. You hear all sorts of things, some say it’s the best thing since sliced bread, others wouldn’t touch it with a ten-foot pole. It’s a real mixed bag, you know?
Now, I ain’t no expert, but I’ve heard some things from the gals around town. Some of ’em, they say it can be mighty pleasurable, you know, if done right. Not everyone’s the same, mind you. What works for one might not work for another. It’s like cookin’, everyone’s got their own recipe.
- Some like it gentle, just a little bit, they call it “surfacing” or “shallowing.” Like tiptoein’ around the door, not barging right in.
- Others, well, they might want somethin’ more…enthusiastic. But it ain’t always about goin’ all the way, see? Just a little touch here and there, that can be enough for some.
Heard tell that a good number of women, somethin’ like 40%, they find that “surfacing” thing enjoyable. You know, just messin’ around the edges, not necessarily goin’ inside. And then there’s the “shallowing,” just a little poke inside, not too much. About 35% of women like that.
Now, don’t go thinkin’ it’s all rainbows and butterflies. For some women, it ain’t pleasurable at all. It might even hurt, or just feel plain uncomfortable. It’s important to listen to your body, you know? Don’t do nothin’ that don’t feel right.
And another thing, a lot of women, they need a little somethin’ extra to get things goin’. Like clitoral stimulation, you know what I mean? It ain’t always enough just doin’ that anal thing on its own. More than 36% of women, they say they need that clitoral thing to, uh, you know, reach the finish line, so to speak.
There was this study, they talked to a whole bunch of women, young and old, from 18 all the way up to 93. And guess what? A good chunk of them, 40%, said they found pleasure in anal play. So, it ain’t just some newfangled thing, it’s been around.
But listen here, anal sex, it ain’t just for the ladies. Men, they seem to like it too, maybe even more so, some say. They did this survey, and anal sex, well, it came out on top for both men and women. Called it the “hands-down winner.” Goes to show, there’s somethin’ to it for everyone, maybe.
Now, I ain’t sayin’ everyone should go out and try it. It’s a personal thing, you see? But if you’re curious, and you and your partner are on the same page, well, there ain’t no harm in explorin’, as long as you’re careful and respectful. And remember, communication is key. Talk to each other, make sure you’re both comfortable. That’s the most important part, no matter what you’re doin’.
And one last thing, this “anal orgasm” thing, it’s real, y’all. It ain’t just somethin’ they made up for them dirty movies. That there anus, it’s got a whole lot of nerve endings, more than you’d think. So, it can be a real source of pleasure for some folks. But again, it ain’t for everyone. You gotta find what works for you. That’s the secret to a happy life, you know? Findin’ what makes you feel good and doin’ that.
So, there you have it. My two cents on this whole “women like anal” thing. It’s complicated, it’s personal, and it’s different for everyone. Just be respectful, be safe, and have fun, if that’s your cup of tea.
Tags: [Anal Pleasure, Women’s Sexuality, Sexual Health, Anal Sex, Relationships, Intimacy, Communication]
