I’ve been with my girlfriend for a while now, and things are great in many ways. We have a good connection, but lately, there’s been this one thing that’s been bothering me in the bedroom. She gives awesome head, no complaints there, but I just can’t seem to finish. It’s frustrating as hell, to be honest.
I mean, I get super close, like right on the edge, but it just doesn’t happen. I’ve even stopped jerking off since we got together, thinking that might help, but nope, still nothing. We’ve tried different things, different positions, you name it. She’s trying her best, bless her heart, and I feel like a jerk for not being able to get there.
Tried Different Techniques
At first, I thought maybe it was the way she was doing it, so we tried switching things up. I even got her to just focus on the head with her mouth and tongue while using her hands more, you know, to keep that gag reflex in check. It felt amazing, don’t get me wrong, but still, I couldn’t get over the finish line.
Tried Delay Creams
Then I started thinking maybe I was just too sensitive or something, so I even tried those delay creams. You know, the ones that are supposed to numb things a bit and help you last longer? I put it on like 5-10 minutes before, just like the instructions said, and wiped it off before we started. It did make things a bit less intense, but even with that, I still couldn’t cum. It was like my body was just refusing to cooperate.
Talked to a Friend
I even talked to a buddy of mine about it, and he suggested that maybe it was some kind of medical thing, like delayed ejaculation or whatever. I looked it up, and it sounded possible, but I don’t know. It’s not like I have trouble finishing at other times, just during oral. It’s weird.
Kept Trying
Despite all this, we kept at it. We figured maybe it was just a matter of time and practice. I mean, we enjoy the process, and the blowjobs are often amazing and great, even if I don’t finish. But it’s still frustrating, you know? You want to be able to give your partner that satisfaction, and you want to experience that release yourself.
Still No Luck
So here I am, still trying to figure this out. It’s not ruining our relationship or anything, but it’s definitely something I want to solve. I want to be able to enjoy this part of our intimacy to the fullest, and I want her to feel like she’s doing a good job, even though she already is. It’s just this one hurdle we haven’t been able to overcome yet.
- Tried different techniques and positions.
- Used delay creams to reduce sensitivity.
- Considered medical conditions like delayed ejaculation.
- Continued trying despite the lack of success.
I’ll keep experimenting and see what happens. Maybe I’ll try some other things, I don’t know, talk to a doctor maybe? It’s a work in progress, I guess. I just wanted to share my experience and see if anyone else has gone through something similar. It’s a frustrating situation, but I’m determined to figure it out.
