Alright, let’s talk about how I finally got my wife to try anal. It wasn’t easy, but man, was it worth it. We’d been talking about it for a while, but she was always hesitant. I get it, it’s not exactly the most conventional thing.
Getting Started
First things first, communication is key. I started by bringing it up casually, not pushing it, just seeing how she felt about the idea. We talked about it on and off for a few weeks. I watched some stuff online, not gonna lie. Just to see how other people did it and what worked for them.
Setting the Mood
When we finally decided to go for it, I made sure the mood was right. I’m talking candles, soft music, the whole nine yards. We were both relaxed and in a good headspace. This is important, guys. You don’t want to rush into this.
The Preparation
- Lube is your best friend. And I mean, lots of it. We used a water-based one because it’s safe for toys and easy to clean up.
- We started slow. Like, really slow. Just some touching and teasing around the area. No pressure to go all in right away.
- I used my fingers first, just one, then two, making sure she was comfortable every step of the way.
Taking the Plunge
Once she gave me the green light, I went for it. I won’t go into too much detail, but let’s just say it was an experience. We took breaks when needed, and I kept checking in with her to make sure she was okay. It wasn’t perfect, and there were a few awkward moments, but we laughed it off.
The Aftermath
Afterward, we cuddled and talked about it. She said it wasn’t as bad as she thought it would be. We even joked about doing it again sometime. Overall, it brought us closer and opened up a whole new level of intimacy in our relationship.
So, there you have it. That’s how I got my wife to try anal. It’s not for everyone, but if you’re both curious and willing to communicate, it can be a fun adventure. Just remember to be patient, use plenty of lube, and enjoy the ride!
