Okay, so, about that “training sex” thing. It was a wild ride, let me tell you. Started off clueless, just like everyone else, you know? I mean, where do you even begin?
The Beginning
First off, I searched a ton of stuff online. Found some basic guides, nothing fancy. But they all said the same thing: communication is key. So, I talked to my partner. We discussed our first time and what we wanted and how nervous we were. It was awkward, sure, but it made things a whole lot easier. The most important thing is finding someone who really wants to do this.
Getting Ready
Then, we decided to take it slow. No rush, no pressure. We learned about our bodies, what feels good, what doesn’t. Lots of touching, exploring. It’s like learning a new dance, kinda. To make our sex more exciting and enjoyable, we tried different things.
- We used some toys, which was fun.
- We figured out what turns each other on.
Doing It
When we finally did it, it wasn’t like in the movies. It was messy, a little painful, and we laughed a lot. But it was also amazing because we were in it together. We went at our own pace, stopped when we needed to, and just enjoyed the moment.
Afterward
Afterward, we talked some more. What we liked, what we could do better next time. It’s a learning process, right? And it gets better each time because you figure things out together.
So, yeah, that’s my “training sex” story. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about being real and connecting with someone. And that’s way more important than any technique you can learn.
