Okay, so, I’ve been trying to get into this whole “chubby chaser” dating scene. Yeah, you heard that right. It’s a thing, apparently, where some folks are really into, uh, bigger guys. And hey, I’m all for it, so I started looking into how to meet these guys.
First, I googled around a bit, you know, just to see what’s out there. Found some random websites and articles about “chubby chaser dating”. Some of them were kind of weird, to be honest, but there were a few that seemed legit.
Then I checked out a few apps. One that kept popping up was this “BiggerCity” thing. It’s supposed to be like a community for bigger gay guys and the people who are into them. Seemed like a good place to start, so I made a profile. I put up some decent pictures, wrote a bit about myself, the usual stuff.
- Keep it real: I just talked about my interests, what I’m looking for, nothing too crazy.
- Stay positive: I mean, who wants to talk to a downer, right?
I started browsing through profiles, sending out some messages. It was a bit slow at first, not gonna lie. But then I started getting some responses. I chatted with a few guys, and it was actually pretty cool. We talked about all sorts of stuff, you know, hobbies, work, what we’re looking for in a partner.
I even went on a couple of dates. Nothing serious, just coffee or drinks, getting to know each other. One guy was really nice, we had a lot in common. Another one, not so much, but hey, that’s dating, right? You win some, you lose some.
One thing I definitely learned is to be careful. I did look for authenticity in the profiles and photos. You gotta watch out for those fakes, you know? I mean, safety first, always. Another thing is to be patient. It takes time to find someone you really click with. Just like with any kind of dating, I guess.
I also found out about a site called “Love For The Chub”, which was supposed to help chubs find love and relationships, but honestly, I didn’t find it as helpful. Maybe it works for some, but BiggerCity seemed more active and had more guys I was actually interested in.
Overall:
So yeah, that’s my experience with this chubby chaser dating thing so far. It’s been interesting, to say the least. I’m still figuring things out, but it’s been fun meeting new people and exploring this whole scene. I keep trying to find someone I really connect with. If you’re thinking about trying it, I’d say go for it. Just be yourself, be safe, and don’t give up. You never know who you might meet!
