So, I’ve been with my girlfriend for a while now, and lately, I’ve been having this nagging thought: is she bisexual? I mean, it’s not a big deal either way, but I’m just curious, you know?
Starting to Notice Things
It all started when we were watching a movie, and there was this really attractive actress on screen. My girlfriend made a comment about how hot she was, and I was like, “Yeah, she is.” But then I started to notice it more often. She’d point out attractive women when we were out and about, or she’d mention female celebrities she found attractive.
Checking Out Other Women
It wasn’t just mentioning them; I started to catch her stealing glances at other women. Like, we’d be at a restaurant, and she’d subtly check out the waitress or a woman at another table. It wasn’t in a creepy way, just like she appreciated their looks. One time she was flirting with a girl at a bar, but I didn’t think much of it at the time. I know she likes attention.
The Attraction Factor
Now, I know attraction is a big part of sexuality. I mean, I’m attracted to women, so it makes sense that she might be attracted to them too, right? But it was more than just a passing thought for her. She seemed genuinely interested in these women, not just physically but also emotionally. But, She never directly said that she likes women or is attracted to them. I tried to think about it from different angles.
Talking to Friends
I even talked to a couple of my friends about it. One of them, who’s bi herself, said it could be a possibility. She explained that bisexuality isn’t always a 50/50 split; some people lean more towards one gender than the other. That made sense to me. I think everyone finds different people attractive, no matter their sexuality.
Having a Conversation
Finally, I decided to just talk to my girlfriend about it. I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it, but I also didn’t want to keep wondering. So, one evening, we were just chilling on the couch, and I casually brought it up. I said something like, “Hey, I’ve noticed you sometimes check out other women. Is that something you’re aware of?”
Her Reaction
She was a little surprised at first, but then she laughed and said, “Yeah, I guess I do. I find women attractive, just like I find men attractive.” She explained that she’s always been attracted to both genders, but she’s never really explored that side of herself. I mean, she’s only ever dated guys before me. We talked more and it was a good conversation. She said she’s not sure if she’s bisexual or not, and is still figuring it out.
Figuring It Out Together
We talked for a while longer, and it was actually a really good conversation. She thanked me for bringing it up and said she felt comfortable talking to me about it. We agreed that it doesn’t really change anything between us, but it’s something she might want to explore more in the future. Honestly, I just want her to be happy and be herself. She said she would let me know if she figures it out. I told her I’m happy to wait and be there for her no matter what.
So, yeah, that’s where I’m at right now. It’s been a bit of a journey, but I’m glad I went through it. It’s helped me understand my girlfriend better, and it’s opened up a whole new level of communication between us. I guess sometimes these seemingly random thoughts can lead to some pretty important discoveries.
