Well, let me tell ya somethin’ about them women who love bi men, ya know? It ain’t as simple as folks think.
What’s it all about, this lovin’ a bi man? First off, lotsa people get all confused about what bein’ bi even means. It ain’t nothin’ fancy, really. It just means a fella can be attracted to both men and women. Plain and simple, like I said. And women, well, they can love whoever they wanna love, ain’t that right? Love is love, that’s what I always say, even if I don’t understand it all the time.
Some folks, they think bi men can’t be faithful, can’t settle down. But that’s just a bunch of hogwash. A man’s a man, and his heart is his heart, no matter who he’s lookin’ at. I know plenty of bi fellas who are married and happy as clams, treatin’ their wives real good. It’s all about the person, not what they call themselves.
- Love is love, no matter what. That’s the truth, plain and simple. Don’t matter if it’s a man and a woman, two women, or two men.
- Bi men can be just as faithful as anyone else. Don’t listen to them gossips down at the market.
- It’s about the person, not the label. You love the heart, not the name they call themselves.
Now, bein’ with a bi man, it might be a little different, I reckon. Maybe you see him lookin’ at another fella sometimes, and you might get a little… well, you know… a little prickly. But that’s just natural, I guess. We all get a little jealous sometimes. The important thing is trust. You gotta trust your man, and he’s gotta trust you. Without that, you ain’t got nothin’.
And talkin’ about it, that’s important too. You gotta talk to each other, tell each other what you’re feelin’. Don’t bottle it up inside, let it fester like a bad sore. If somethin’s botherin’ you, spit it out. That’s the only way to make things work. And if he’s a good man, he’ll listen. He’ll listen and he’ll try to understand.
There’s this book, see? Some fancy doctor wrote it. It’s called “Women in Relationships with Bisexual Men: Bi Men by Women.” Sounds complicated, huh? Well, it just means it’s about women who are with bi men, told from the women’s point of view. I ain’t read it myself, mind you, but I heard it says that these relationships can be real good, real strong, if you just put in the work.
And that’s true for any relationship, ain’t it? You gotta work at it. You gotta be patient, you gotta be understanding, and you gotta be willin’ to forgive. Nobody’s perfect, not you, not me, and certainly not your man, bi or not. So you gotta learn to love the whole package, the good and the bad.
Some folks use big words like “monogamous” and “pansexuality” to talk about this stuff. But to me, it’s all just love. Call it what you want, it don’t matter none. What matters is how you treat each other, how you respect each other. And whether you’re bi, straight, or whatever newfangled term they come up with next, love is the same. It’s about carin’ for someone, wantin’ the best for them, and bein’ there for them, through thick and thin.
So, if you’re a woman who loves a bi man, don’t let nobody tell you it’s wrong, or that it can’t work. It can work, and it can be beautiful. Just remember what I said: trust, talkin’, and a whole lotta love. That’s all you need. And maybe a little bit of patience, ’cause men, well, they can be a handful sometimes, bless their hearts.
And remember this too, your love is just as good as anyone else’s. Don’t let anyone tell you different. You hold your head high and love who you love. It ain’t nobody’s business but yours and your man’s. And if you’re happy, well, that’s all that matters, ain’t it?
In this world, times are changing, and people are more open about their feeling, and it’s about loving the person inside, not the label or who they used to be with. It’s about building a life together, and about respect. It’s a partnership. It is about acceptance, not just of your partner but also of yourself, and where you stand in the world as a couple. It is about embracing the future as a team and allowing love to blossom no matter what anyone says.
So you hold on to that love, honey. You nurture it, and you let it grow. And you don’t let nobody tell you it ain’t real, because it is. It’s as real as the sun in the sky, as real as the ground beneath your feet. It is your love, and it is precious. You hold on tight, and don’t let go.
