Okay, so, let’s talk about anal sex. It’s been a thing for me for a while now, and I’ve got some stories to tell. It all started a few years back with my ex. We were pretty adventurous in bed, always trying new things, you know? One day, she just sprung it on me. “Hey,” she said, “wanna try anal?” I was a bit taken aback, not gonna lie. I mean, I’d seen it in porn and stuff, but never really thought about doing it myself.
I hesitated, but she was persuasive. Said it could be really intense and pleasurable. So, I thought, why the hell not? We started slow, lots of lube and gentle touches. It wasn’t exactly comfortable at first, a bit of a weird sensation, but not painful. She was guiding me through it, telling me what felt good and what didn’t. We took it easy, no rush.
- First time was a bit awkward, more about figuring things out.
- Second time, we got a little more adventurous. Still slow, but we started experimenting with different positions.
- After a few times, it became a regular thing. We both really enjoyed it. It added a whole new dimension to our sex life.
After we broke up, I didn’t really do it again for a while. Then I met my current girlfriend. She was into it too, which was a pleasant surprise. We started exploring it together, and it’s been pretty amazing. It’s not just about the physical sensation, which is great, don’t get me wrong. But it’s also about the intimacy, the trust. You’re really letting someone into a part of you that’s, well, pretty private. I don’t know. It’s hard to explain, but there is another feeling that make me feel so excited.
I think the taboo around anal sex is part of the appeal, to be honest. It’s like this forbidden fruit, you know? Doing something that’s a bit naughty, a bit outside the norm. And maybe it’s a bit of a power thing too. You’re in control, you’re the one doing the penetrating. Some people might find that a turn-on, I guess. I read somewhere that a lot of guys first learn about anal sex from women, and then they start suggesting it to other partners. Makes sense, I suppose. Once you’ve tried it and liked it, you want to do it again.
I’ve noticed that anal is way more common in porn than it probably is in real life. I mean, every other scene seems to involve it these days. But I don’t think it’s quite as widespread in the real world. Still, it’s definitely becoming more accepted, more talked about. And that’s a good thing, I reckon. There’s nothing wrong with it, as long as everyone’s consenting and enjoying themselves.
So, yeah, that’s my experience with anal. It’s been a journey, that’s for sure. From that first hesitant try to now, where it’s just another part of my sex life. It’s not for everyone, and that’s cool. But if you’re curious, I say go for it. Just remember to use plenty of lube, take it slow, and communicate with your partner. And who knows, you might just discover a whole new world of pleasure.
