Well, let me tell ya, this whole “threesome” thing with my girlfriend, it’s somethin’ else, ain’t it? I ain’t no expert, mind you, just a regular person tryin’ to figure things out.
So, what is this “threesome” anyway?
From what I gather, it’s when three folks get together, you know, for some…intimacy. Now, some folks, they think it’s all fun and games. Like that fella said, it seemed fun for everybody at first. But let me tell ya, it ain’t always so simple.
- Sometimes, it’s a man and two women.
- Sometimes, it’s two men and a woman.
- Heck, I even heard of two women and a man.
It’s all a bit much for an old gal like me to wrap my head around, but that’s what the young’uns are doin’ these days, I guess.
Why would anyone want a threesome?
Now, that’s the million-dollar question, ain’t it? I hear some folks say it’s about tryin’ new things, explorin’, you know? Like that girl who surprised her boyfriend, bringin’ in a friend and all. Some folks, they just curious, I reckon. Others, maybe they feel like somethin’s missin’ and they think addin’ another person will fix it. But from what I seen, it can just as easily make things more complicated.
Is it always a good idea?
Heck no! I seen folks get hurt, feelings get all tangled up. Like that fella who ended up leavin’ in the middle of it. Must’ve been somethin’ real awkward happened there. It ain’t always sunshine and roses, that’s for sure. You gotta think long and hard before you jump into somethin’ like this.
What if things go wrong?
Well, that’s when it gets messy. Jealousy, that’s a big one. Folks gettin’ possessive, feelin’ left out. It can really mess with your head. I read somewhere that it can have a big impact on your mind, all this threesome business. And that makes sense to me. We ain’t machines, you know? We got feelings. And when you start messin’ with them feelings, things can go south real fast.
How many partners is too many?
Now, I heard some folks talkin’ about this too. How many folks you been with, you know? Some say this number is too much, some say that number is too little. It’s all a bunch of hooey if you ask me. Ain’t no magic number. What matters is that you’re respectful and honest with your partner, or partners, I guess. And that you’re takin’ care of yourself, both physically and emotionally.
What if my girlfriend wants a threesome and I don’t?
Well, that’s a tough one. You gotta talk, that’s the main thing. Sit down, have a real heart-to-heart. Tell her how you feel, what you’re worried about. And listen to her too. Maybe you can find some middle ground, maybe you can’t. But you gotta be honest, even if it’s hard. ’Cause if you ain’t honest, things are just gonna get worse.
And if I want a threesome and my girlfriend don’t?
Same thing, I reckon. Talk it out. See if she’s willin’ to try, but don’t push her if she ain’t. Respect her wishes, you know? It ain’t right to force someone into somethin’ they don’t wanna do. There is plenty of fish in the sea, as they say, but better to figure out your problems with the one you’re with, isn’t it?
The bottom line is…
This whole threesome thing, it ain’t for everyone. It can be complicated, messy, and even hurtful. But for some folks, maybe it works. Just make sure you go into it with your eyes wide open, and that you’re communicatin’ with your partner every step of the way. And remember, there ain’t no shame in sayin’ no. You gotta do what’s right for you, what makes you happy. And if that means stickin’ to a good ol’ fashioned two-person relationship, well, there ain’t nothin’ wrong with that neither.
So that’s my two cents on this whole threesome thing. Like I said, I ain’t no expert, just an old gal tryin’ to make sense of the world. But I hope this helps some of you young’uns out there. Just remember to be safe, be respectful, and be honest. And maybe, just maybe, you’ll figure out this whole relationship thing without gettin’ your heart broke too bad.
Tags: Threesome, Relationship, Girlfriend, Intimacy, Communication, Feelings, Jealousy, Boundaries, Honesty, Respect
