Well now, let’s talk about the best position, you know, for the first time. It’s a big deal, this “losing your virginity” thing, even if nobody really knows what it means exactly. Some folks say it’s this, some say it’s that. Anyway, it’s about havin’ sex for the first time, that’s what they tell me.
First things first, you gotta make sure she’s comfortable, you hear? Don’t just go jumpin’ on her like a bull in a china shop. This ain’t about you, it’s about the both of you. And for her, well, it’s a whole new thing. So take it slow, real slow.
- Foreplay is key, they say. What’s that mean? Well, it means kissin’ and cuddlin’, you know, gettin’ things warmed up. Don’t be shy about it. And listen, oral sex, that’s a good thing too. Gets her all ready, like. You want her to be ready, not all tensed up and scared. The more ready she is, the easier it’ll be, that’s what they say. Her body, it knows what to do, it gets bigger and wetter, if you know what I mean.
- And speaking of size, some fellas think bigger is better. But that ain’t always true, you know? Long ain’t everything. It’s more about how you use it, not how big it is. Be gentle, be patient. That’s what matters.
Now, about them positions. There’s all sorts, I hear. But for the first time, you don’t want nothin’ too crazy. Keep it simple, keep it comfortable.
Being on top, that’s a good one, they say. Why? Well, ’cause she’s in charge then. She can control how fast it goes, how deep it goes. She feels more in control, less scared maybe. She can move however she wants, and that’s important. She ain’t just lyin’ there like a rag doll, you know? She’s part of it, she’s in charge.
And then there’s this “G-spot” thing. Heard about that? It’s some kinda magic spot inside her, they say. About an inch in, on the top wall. If you hit that spot, well, it’s supposed to be real good for her. But don’t go pokin’ around blindly, you hear? Be gentle, be respectful. And foreplay, that helps with findin’ it too. Gets her all relaxed and ready.
When things move down below the waist, remember, it ain’t just about stickin’ it in. It’s about connectin’, about sharin’, about makin’ it good for both of you. And for her, the first time, it’s a big deal. So be kind, be patient, and listen to her. If she says slow down, slow down. If she says stop, stop. It ain’t all about you, remember?
So, to recap, take it slow with the foreplay, lots of kissin’ and cuddlin’. Being on top is a good position, let’s her be in control. And try to find that G-spot, but be gentle about it. Most important thing is, make sure she’s comfortable and feels safe. That’s the best way to make it a good experience for her, and for you too.
And don’t forget, talkin’ is important too. Ask her what she likes, what feels good. Don’t just assume you know everything. Communication, that’s what they call it. It’s important in all things, but especially when you’re, you know, doin’ the deed.
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