Well, let me tell ya, what guys like during sex, it ain’t rocket science, you know? It’s all about makin’ ’em feel good, just like us gals. But fellas, they a bit different, gotta pay attention to what makes ’em tick.
First off, they like it when you’re into it, ya know? Don’t just lay there like a sack of potatoes. Move around a bit, make some noise, let ’em know you’re havin’ a good time. They wanna feel like they’re doin’ somethin’ right, that they’re pleasin’ ya. It’s like bakin’ a pie, if nobody eats it and says it’s good, what’s the point?
- Be enthusiastic, like when you find a good bargain at the market.
- Don’t be shy. We all got bodies, ain’t nothin’ to be ashamed of.
And touchin’, oh honey, touchin’ is important. But not just anywhere, ya gotta be smart about it. Start with a massage, like kneadin’ dough, but gentler. Rub his back, his shoulders, his neck. Guys get tense too, just like us after a long day of workin’ in the fields. Loosen ’em up, make ’em feel relaxed and comfortable. Then, you can start explorin’ a bit more, you know what I mean? They got their spots, just like we do. Pay attention to how he reacts, what makes him moan, what makes him shiver. It’s like learnin’ a new recipe, gotta try different things till you find what works.
Some fellas, they like it rough, some like it gentle. It’s like plantin’ seeds, some need a lot of water, some need just a little. You gotta figure out what kind of plant your man is, what he needs to grow. Ask him! Ain’t nothin’ wrong with askin’. It’s better than guessin’ and gettin’ it wrong. It’s like tryin’ to find a good watermelon, gotta thump it a few times to see if it’s ripe.
And don’t forget about the romance, even in bed. Romance ain’t just for courtin’. It’s like keepin’ the fire burnin’, gotta add wood every now and then. Whisper sweet nothin’s in his ear, tell him how good he looks, how good he feels. Make him feel like he’s the only man in the world. It’s like singin’ a love song, gotta put your heart into it.
Eye contact, that’s a big one too. Look him in the eyes, let him see your soul. It’s like lookin’ at a clear sky, nothin’ hidden, just pure and honest. It makes the connection stronger, makes him feel like you’re really with him, not just thinkin’ about what’s for supper.
And somethin’ else, don’t underestimate the power of the little things. A little kiss on the nose, a little nibble on the ear, a little scratch on the back. It’s like addin’ a pinch of salt to a dish, it brings out the flavor. These little things, they show him you care, that you’re payin’ attention to him, that you wanna please him. And sometimes, just plain old talkin’ is good too. Like after a long day, just sittin’ on the porch and chattin’. Connect with him on a personal level, not just physical.
Remember, it ain’t all about the physical stuff either. Sometimes, a good cracker with some summer sausage after, that’s nice too. It’s like havin’ a good meal after workin’ hard, it satisfies ya. It’s about the whole experience, the connection, the intimacy, the feelin’ of bein’ close to someone. And remember those singers, Boyz II Men? They sang about love, and that’s what it’s all about, makin’ love, not just havin’ sex. So, pay attention to your man, figure out what he likes, and don’t be afraid to try new things. It’s like plantin’ a garden, gotta tend to it, nurture it, and watch it grow.
Just keep in mind that the best way to know what a fella likes in bed is to ask him. Simple as that. Good luck, and don’t forget to have fun!
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