Well, now, lemme tell ya somethin’ ‘bout what them fellas like to hear when, you know, things get… frisky. It ain’t rocket science, that’s for sure. Different folks like different things, just like some like their eggs scrambled and some like ‘em fried. But there’s some stuff that most fellas, they just eat right up.
First off, don’t be shy now. If somethin’ feels good, you gotta let ‘em know! A good ol’ “Oh yeah, baby!” or a grunt and a groan, that goes a long way. Some fellas, they like it loud, ya know? Like they want the whole darn neighborhood to hear. They ain’t happy ‘less you screamin’ like a banshee, letin’ ’em know they the best thing since sliced bread. They wanna know they’re, uh, “pleasin’ ya,” if ya catch my drift.
And speakin’ of pleasin’, don’t be afraid to tell ‘em they’re doin’ a good job. Men, they like to feel like they know what they’re doin’, even if they don’t got a clue. A simple “You’re so good at this” or “That feels amazing,” it’ll make ‘em puff up like a rooster. You can say somethin’ like, “You the best I ever had” even if it ain’t exactly true. A little white lie never hurt nobody, especially in the bedroom.
- Tell ’em they look good. Even if they got a belly like a pot and hair thin as a whisker, tell ‘em they’re handsome. “You’re so handsome,” or “I love lookin’ at you,” somethin’ like that. It makes ‘em feel all manly and whatnot.
- Praise their… you know… “manhood.” Fellas are funny about that. A little “You’re huge,” or somethin’ similar, it makes ‘em feel like, well, like a big man. They might strut around like a peacock, but inside, they’re purrin’ like a kitten. Don’t go overboard though, ya hear? Keep it real, or it sounds silly.
- Tell ‘em what you want. Don’t just lay there like a bump on a log! If you want ‘em to do somethin’ different, tell ‘em! “A little to the left,” “a little harder,” “a little faster,” they ain’t mind readers ya know! And if you like somethin’ they’re doin’, tell ’em that too! “Don’t stop!” is always a good one.
- Get a little… dirty. Now, I ain’t sayin’ you gotta talk like a sailor, but a little bit of spice can be nice. Whisper somethin’ in their ear, somethin’ a little naughty. It’ll get their engine revvin’, that’s for sure.
See, it ain’t complicated. It’s all about makin’ ‘em feel good and confident. Like they’re the king of the castle, even if it’s just for a little while. Give ‘em some praise, tell ‘em what you want, and don’t be afraid to get a little… enthusiastic. And for goodness sake, be genuine about it. Don’t fake it till you make it, feel it till you say it! They ain’t stupid, they can tell if you’re just goin’ through the motions.
And remember, every fella’s different. What works for one might not work for another. So pay attention, listen to what they like and what they don’t like. And don’t be afraid to experiment a little. Find out what makes ‘em tick and then, well, you just go from there. It’s all about havin’ fun and makin’ each other feel good. That’s the long and short of it, as far as I can tell.
Now, I ain’t no expert on these things, mind you. But I’ve been around the block a few times, and I’ve seen what makes men happy. And most of the time, it ain’t about fancy moves or expensive toys. It’s about feelin’ appreciated and desired. And a few well-placed words can go a long, long way.
So, next time you’re in the throes of passion, don’t be afraid to open your mouth and say what’s on your mind, girl! Your fella will thank you for it. Trust me on this one.
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