Let’s get down to it, guys. I’ve been thinking a lot about sex taboos lately. It’s not something I usually chat about, but hey, we’re all adults here, right? So, I decided to do a little experiment, or you could call it a personal deep dive into the world of “what is sex taboo.”
First off, I had to figure out what I even meant by “sex taboo.” I mean, I grew up in a time where three subjects you never talk about was money, politics, and sex. So, naturally, I started by thinking about the things I was taught not to discuss, the stuff that made people blush or change the subject real quick. I remembered those awkward talks with my parents, which were more like them trying to avoid any real conversation, and the useless sex ed classes where we’d giggle and learn next to nothing.
My Little Experiment
- Step One: I sat down and made a list of all the things I considered taboo when it came to sex. I wrote down everything from past relationships to specific acts, and even some words that felt “dirty” just to say out loud.
- Step Two: I started talking about it. Not with everyone, of course, but I picked a few close friends who I knew wouldn’t judge me. It was tough at first. I felt like I was breaking some unwritten rule. But you know what? It got easier. The more I talked, the less “taboo” these topics felt.
- Step Three: I did some digging online. I wanted to see what other people were saying about sex taboos. I found some articles, a few discussions, and even some educators who talked openly about this stuff. It was eye-opening, to say the least. I realized I wasn’t alone in feeling like some topics were off-limits.
I’ve been at this for a few weeks now, and honestly, it’s been kind of liberating. Talking about sex taboos, even just thinking about them more openly, has helped me understand myself better. I’ve realized that a lot of what we consider “taboo” is just stuff we haven’t been taught how to talk about properly. And that’s a shame because it means we’re missing out on some important conversations.
This whole thing has made me think that maybe, just maybe, we need to start talking more. Not in a shocking or inappropriate way, but just honestly and openly. Because when we don’t talk about these things, we let them stay in the shadows, and that’s not doing anyone any good.
So, that’s my little journey into the world of sex taboos. It’s been interesting, a bit awkward at times, but definitely worth it. I’m not saying I’m an expert now or anything, but I’m definitely more comfortable talking about these things. And maybe, just maybe, that’s a good start.
